Let’s be honest.
Some days, life feels less like a Pinterest board and more like a hot mess express. Deadlines, demanding clients, weird smells coming from the breakroom fridge—this is not the aesthetic anyone signed up for.
But what if I told you that beauty is still there, even in the mess?
Yeah, I know. Eye-roll. But stay with me.
As women who are running businesses, households, meetings, and (let’s face it) the whole damn world, it’s easy to forget that beauty isn’t just sunsets and spa days. It’s also that ridiculous meme your best friend sent you at 7AM. It’s the barista who remembered your order and asked about your dog. It’s the way your assistant handled that fire drill without panicking—or how you did.
So what’s the real challenge?
Training Yourself to See It
You don’t need more time. You need a new lens. Here are a few power moves to help you start spotting the beauty hiding in plain sight:
1. Pause Before You Pounce
Your day is packed. I get it. But before you dive into the next task, take a breath. One breath. Then look up. Is the light coming through the window kinda gorgeous? Did your client just say something wildly kind? Catch it. Don’t bulldoze over it.
2. Audit Your Inner Narrator
If the voice in your head sounds like a burned-out office manager with a clipboard and no sense of humor… we need to talk. Start noticing the story you’re telling yourself about what’s “wrong” — and flip it. What’s right about this moment? What’s worthy? What’s beautiful?
3. Look for Micro-Moments
Beauty doesn’t need to be big or obvious. It could be how your kid’s messy ponytail reminds you she’s growing up. Or how the closing you barely made still got done because you trusted your gut. Celebrate the heck out of those small wins. They’re the real gold.
4. Fall in Love With Your Work Again
You didn’t build your career to be miserable. And somewhere between your first deal and your latest negotiation ninja move, you did fall in love with this work. Tap back into that. What part of today’s work made you feel proud? Lit up? Useful? Beauty lives there too.
5. Stop Waiting for “Perfect”
Here’s your permission slip: Beauty isn’t about perfect. It’s about presence. Show up with your whole self—even if that self is rocking dry shampoo and yesterday’s mascara. There’s still power in that. And yes, there’s beauty too.
This Isn’t About Ignoring the Hard Stuff
Let’s not pretend every day is a field of daisies. Sometimes life does kick you in the shins. But you, my friend, are the kind of woman who doesn’t stay down for long. You get up. You shift your focus. You find the meaning. And with that shift?
You find the beauty.
And if you’re ready to train your brain (and your business) to see more of what’s right, not just what’s urgent, then let’s talk.
Because the life you love? It’s not on the other side of a tropical vacation or perfect circumstances. It’s waiting to be noticed—in the middle of your real, messy, beautiful day.
💬 Ready to see the beauty in your own life (and business)?
Let’s have a discovery session and find out what’s waiting to bloom.
